Simple Ways to Show Appreciation
We all like to feel appreciated. Think of the last time someone did something unexpectedly nice for you, “just because.” It probably made your day—and here’s the secret: it made the other person feel good, too.
So, want to feel terrific while brightening someone else’s day? Here are 25 inexpensive (or free!) ways to express your appreciation—for a spouse, family member, neighbor, coworker, friend, or even a stranger.
- Bring donuts or another treat to share at work.
- Wash your spouse’s car without being asked.
- Surprise someone with dinner and a movie.
- Handwrite a heartfelt card or letter.
- Leave a love note in your partner’s pocket.
- Pick up a friend’s favorite snack from the store.
- Call someone far away who would love to hear your voice.
- Invite a colleague or friend out for coffee or a drink.
- Write a kind message on a mirror with a dry erase marker.
- Celebrate someone’s half-birthday.
- Give a sincere compliment on their outfit or style.
- Handle an unpleasant chore (trash, dishes, cat litter).
- Run an errand to lighten their load.
- Offer to babysit or house-sit (and mean it!).
- Praise someone’s skill or talent—be specific.
- Hand out cold water on a hot day.
- Hold the door open and smile at a stranger.
- Tip generously, and add a kind note if you can.
- Tidy up the house without being asked.
- Let someone else choose the movie.
- Gift a small certificate to their favorite store or café.
- Help with a big project, like moving.
- Cook their favorite meal for dinner.
- Do the dishes when you’re a guest.
- Simply tell someone how much—and why—you appreciate them.
These small gestures can make a big difference, especially if someone is having a tough day. Even if you think people know you value them, show it anyway.We all like to feel appreciated. Think of the last time someone did something unexpectedly nice for you, “just because”. It probably made you feel great. And here’s a secret: it made the other person feel good, too!
Janet Hill Jackson
Guest Blogger